Dating Patterns

The 8-question dating pattern check

8 questions about the last few people you dated or almost dated. You get one of nine pattern cards. It runs in your browser and nothing is saved.

8 questions · about 2 minutes

What do you keep doing in dating?

Think about the last few people you dated or almost dated. Nothing you answer is saved or sent anywhere.

Your card:

BUMIS: Your Dating Mirror

Your card shows one pattern from eight answers. Learn your dating patterns in depth.

Confidence in dating doesn't come from better lines or more matches. It comes from understanding yourself first. BUMIS exists so you can see the pattern, name it, and stop repeating it while you're still dating. Enough is enough. See it. Break the cycle. Date with clarity.

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The nine cards

Full Speed

You feel it early and you let yourself run with it.

Slow Burn

You wait until you are sure, and you are rarely sure early.

Clear Sky

Not knowing where you stand is the hardest part for you.

Open Ended

You are comfortable letting things stay undefined.

Home Pull

You are drawn to a feeling you already know.

New Horizon

You go looking for something different each time.

Long Goodbye

You stay past the point where it stopped working.

Clean Break

When it is over, you are gone.

Even Keel

No single lean stands out in your answers.